Showing posts with label WTH. Show all posts
Showing posts with label WTH. Show all posts
Sunday, September 5, 2010
The Two Month Mark
What is it about the two month mark in a relationship that things get weird? Its an awkward unknown type of weird. Leading up to the two month mark, he's doing everything right, you are feeling great about things and then all of a sudden either he pulls away a little or you feel insecure and there is this weird tension. At least that seems to be what happens to me. This is a very bad cycle because when the man pulls away to test the waters or test the girl, the girl has two choices either continue acting the same, which could push him away or pull away herself with the hopes he will then do all the work again. Dating is a dance and for the first few months of this relationship, I was relieved that there were no games and everything was so easy. Now, I am questioning if my being so available is leaving him to lose interest. Maybe I should have followed "The Rules" and only hung out three days a week instead of 5!
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
The World is BACKWARDS
This am while perusing twitter I came across this link to:
http://www.examiner.com/x-42057-Seattle-Dating-Advice-Examiner~y2010m6d10-5-dating-things-men-hate"
I want to know where these perfect "Charming, romantic, sexy and sophisticated" men are. I am here to tell you ladies, if you find this guy who is perfect for you, you won't have to worry about "blowing it". I can honestly say with 100 percent honesty that I have never "Blown a relationship". Ether it works or doesn't but this isn't a fear. Its funny that a guy wrote this! Id like to talk to his ex.
5 dating things men hate
"A charming, romantic, sexy, and sophisticated man completely sweeps you off your feet. Now the only thing you have to do is not blow it. Sounds easy enough right? Wrong! Many women completely sabotage any chance with the right man because they are unaware of what men hate. So here it is plain and simple. These are the things that guys find absolutely annoying, but will be reluctant to tell you."
I want to know where these perfect "Charming, romantic, sexy and sophisticated" men are. I am here to tell you ladies, if you find this guy who is perfect for you, you won't have to worry about "blowing it". I can honestly say with 100 percent honesty that I have never "Blown a relationship". Ether it works or doesn't but this isn't a fear. Its funny that a guy wrote this! Id like to talk to his ex.
Monday, June 14, 2010
Real Life Emails from Online dating...Good, Bad, Hillarious
These are some of my favorite first messages while online dating. They are not meant to discourage, only entertain! I have deleted the screen names because most of these men are probably still online dating on several sites. I have not edited the words, spelling or grammar so some are a little harder to read. Enjoy xo SG
“You have amazing smile that would light up any room. Would you be open to getting to know a sweet tall Black man ;) What's your name ??? “
-100-year-old man
Woodland Hills- CA - US
Seeks women 18-30
RE: Hey sweetie!
“Hi Sweetie,
I ran into a hot friend of mine at coffee bean today. I think you and him will connect ;)
He is a tall, dark, handsome and A DOCTOR! he used to date a colombian actress but is single now.
You owe me a hunk for this ;)
Ciao,
TheTrendyR”
(I actually Picked up a gay guy)
“So decided to give this a try since can get really busy with work, gym, laundry :0) (my friend did PR for Jersey Shore and I picked that up!). So I set up my little profile a few days ago and people responded but didn't pay so much attention to that. Liked your pictures and what you wrote though :) Now I think my pics suck! And mostly because my favorite pictures have other people in them and didnt want to put that all out there!! My main one realized have guiness pajama bottoms on! Anyway, thanks ;) Little something about me, used to be an attorney but began hating it. Plus everyone hates lawyers. Moved over to financial field at one of the big investment houses right BEFORE the crash. Now everyone hates us again! But I promise I really am a nice guy!! Well, hope this finds you well and hear back from you if you like my (few) pictures and profile!”
35-year-old man
Woodland Hills- CA – US
Seeks women 21-32
“Seeking Someone Positive
Obviously your profile caught my eye and I wanted to see if there was a connection. It appears that we have a lot in common and I believe I fit your profile. Contact me when you get a chance as I would like to see if there is a chance that we can progress things forward :) “
“RE: Hey sweetie!
I may :)
I met a hot Italian designer at whole foods last night. He is supposed to take to Sushi Nobu tmrw nite. I'll let you know how it goes.”
-TheTrendyR
“'I’m sure youve heard every cliche and if it works for the average girl, then Im pretty sure it wouldnt be much of an icebreaker for you.... So let me just introduce myself. So here goes.... My name is Rodrigo. Why am I writing you? Because like myself we might be trying to meet people out of our normal circle. There's a little bit of a romantic notion in that thought. I dont know if we will ever meet but Im sure it would be fun if we do. I love Trader Joes and love to cook but Im not the best. So tips on fun restaurants will be well appreciated. :^) I'm in LA weekends exploring. I like tennis although I may not be the best and know better to never to try to help anyone with their game. Best to just have fun. If your asking then the answer is, Yes I like to Travel... I appreciate all cultures and love the differences. Being local to Redondo is super however I like to find places that maybe strange or shiny, an adventure of sorts. I am looking for a person that can talk intelligently enough to know that kindess is the highest and most formal education that anyone can have. Best Regards, Rodrigo xxx-xxx-xxxxx”
45-year-old man
El Nido- CA - US
Seeks women 18-50
“I like u'r picture, and i like what u say, and I am interested to know more about u. about me I work a lot, which is why I'm trying this. In general I like doing things that are relaxing most of the week. And /, or go extrem like a snowboarding wknd, And go to my boxing once or twice a week. I like going out for drinks. I skip the LA club scene this days. I'm looking for someone new and exiting cool and fun pearson to b with and hang out with...and travel with . I belive i have many of the qualityies u'r looking for in a man. hope to hear back from u”
39-year-old man
Encino- CA - US
Seeks women 24-35
(NO, I didn’t edit the grammar, this is exactly as sent)
“Your profile says you like to play at the beach. Do you play volleyball down in Manhattan Beach? That's not far from where I play in Hermosa. Well, I liked what you had to say in your profile and I definitely understand having to keep up with work and a busy social schedule. My calendar is pretty packed these days. I've signed up for a few classes on weekday evenings, to try some new things. Anyway, I hope the week's going well for you. Just a couple of days till the weekend:)
Talk to you soon,
P
P.S. I'm a pretty good Texas Hold'Em player. Do you play?”
33-year-old man
Redondo Beach, CA, US
Seeks women 23-32
Active within 24 hours
“Subject: RE: RE: ITS MIKE-HOW ARE YOU
Nice surprise to see a happy pretty face.. how's match going? leave your number if you want to talk or here's mine xxx-xxx-xxxx”
33-year-old man
Mission Viejo, CA, US
“ITS MIKE--
don't be shy..:)”
33-year-old man
Mission Viejo, CA, US
Date received: April 3, 2009
“ITS MIKE--
Like your style & smile :) e-mail me if interested”
33-year-old man
Mission Viejo, CA, US
“Subject: hi
Hi. My name is Michael. How are you doing? I would like to invite you to communicate with me. :)”
Subject: Dear Friend
“Dear Friend,
A very good day to you over there, How is life treating you and your family? My name's are Ojo Uyi Sunny, I am 31 by age lives in thessaloniki in Greece my nationality is nigeria, I saw your request on onlinedatingsite.com and i am interested in on your propsal.
Here is my mobile number +30694831xxxx you can call me if interested or send me a return email.
Do have a wonderful day,
Yours Faithfully,”
31-year-old man
Thessaloníki (salonika), , Greece
Seeks women 18-45
“You have amazing smile that would light up any room. Would you be open to getting to know a sweet tall Black man ;) What's your name ??? “
-100-year-old man
Woodland Hills- CA - US
Seeks women 18-30
RE: Hey sweetie!
“Hi Sweetie,
I ran into a hot friend of mine at coffee bean today. I think you and him will connect ;)
He is a tall, dark, handsome and A DOCTOR! he used to date a colombian actress but is single now.
You owe me a hunk for this ;)
Ciao,
TheTrendyR”
(I actually Picked up a gay guy)
“So decided to give this a try since can get really busy with work, gym, laundry :0) (my friend did PR for Jersey Shore and I picked that up!). So I set up my little profile a few days ago and people responded but didn't pay so much attention to that. Liked your pictures and what you wrote though :) Now I think my pics suck! And mostly because my favorite pictures have other people in them and didnt want to put that all out there!! My main one realized have guiness pajama bottoms on! Anyway, thanks ;) Little something about me, used to be an attorney but began hating it. Plus everyone hates lawyers. Moved over to financial field at one of the big investment houses right BEFORE the crash. Now everyone hates us again! But I promise I really am a nice guy!! Well, hope this finds you well and hear back from you if you like my (few) pictures and profile!”
35-year-old man
Woodland Hills- CA – US
Seeks women 21-32
“Seeking Someone Positive
Obviously your profile caught my eye and I wanted to see if there was a connection. It appears that we have a lot in common and I believe I fit your profile. Contact me when you get a chance as I would like to see if there is a chance that we can progress things forward :) “
“RE: Hey sweetie!
I may :)
I met a hot Italian designer at whole foods last night. He is supposed to take to Sushi Nobu tmrw nite. I'll let you know how it goes.”
-TheTrendyR
“'I’m sure youve heard every cliche and if it works for the average girl, then Im pretty sure it wouldnt be much of an icebreaker for you.... So let me just introduce myself. So here goes.... My name is Rodrigo. Why am I writing you? Because like myself we might be trying to meet people out of our normal circle. There's a little bit of a romantic notion in that thought. I dont know if we will ever meet but Im sure it would be fun if we do. I love Trader Joes and love to cook but Im not the best. So tips on fun restaurants will be well appreciated. :^) I'm in LA weekends exploring. I like tennis although I may not be the best and know better to never to try to help anyone with their game. Best to just have fun. If your asking then the answer is, Yes I like to Travel... I appreciate all cultures and love the differences. Being local to Redondo is super however I like to find places that maybe strange or shiny, an adventure of sorts. I am looking for a person that can talk intelligently enough to know that kindess is the highest and most formal education that anyone can have. Best Regards, Rodrigo xxx-xxx-xxxxx”
45-year-old man
El Nido- CA - US
Seeks women 18-50
“I like u'r picture, and i like what u say, and I am interested to know more about u. about me I work a lot, which is why I'm trying this. In general I like doing things that are relaxing most of the week. And /, or go extrem like a snowboarding wknd, And go to my boxing once or twice a week. I like going out for drinks. I skip the LA club scene this days. I'm looking for someone new and exiting cool and fun pearson to b with and hang out with...and travel with . I belive i have many of the qualityies u'r looking for in a man. hope to hear back from u”
39-year-old man
Encino- CA - US
Seeks women 24-35
(NO, I didn’t edit the grammar, this is exactly as sent)
“Your profile says you like to play at the beach. Do you play volleyball down in Manhattan Beach? That's not far from where I play in Hermosa. Well, I liked what you had to say in your profile and I definitely understand having to keep up with work and a busy social schedule. My calendar is pretty packed these days. I've signed up for a few classes on weekday evenings, to try some new things. Anyway, I hope the week's going well for you. Just a couple of days till the weekend:)
Talk to you soon,
P
P.S. I'm a pretty good Texas Hold'Em player. Do you play?”
33-year-old man
Redondo Beach, CA, US
Seeks women 23-32
Active within 24 hours
“Subject: RE: RE: ITS MIKE-HOW ARE YOU
Nice surprise to see a happy pretty face.. how's match going? leave your number if you want to talk or here's mine xxx-xxx-xxxx”
33-year-old man
Mission Viejo, CA, US
“ITS MIKE--
don't be shy..:)”
33-year-old man
Mission Viejo, CA, US
Date received: April 3, 2009
“ITS MIKE--
Like your style & smile :) e-mail me if interested”
33-year-old man
Mission Viejo, CA, US
“Subject: hi
Hi. My name is Michael. How are you doing? I would like to invite you to communicate with me. :)”
Subject: Dear Friend
“Dear Friend,
A very good day to you over there, How is life treating you and your family? My name's are Ojo Uyi Sunny, I am 31 by age lives in thessaloniki in Greece my nationality is nigeria, I saw your request on onlinedatingsite.com and i am interested in on your propsal.
Here is my mobile number +30694831xxxx you can call me if interested or send me a return email.
Do have a wonderful day,
Yours Faithfully,”
31-year-old man
Thessaloníki (salonika), , Greece
Seeks women 18-45
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Umm what the heck...
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